1.       Start each day with a kiss – Make it a habit and ritual

2.       Wear your wedding band/ring at all times – Men this one’s a special shout out to your kind. Ladies if he forgets or complains of irritation always send him a romantic gentle reminder “winks”.

3.       Take yourselves out alone or go on a “two alone” Date once a week – whether lunch or dinner or movie ‘save the date’ , no matter if you have got kids don’t take them along, drop them off at grand ma’s or your sister’s.

4.        Accept your differences – No matter how close twins are they still have differences, so don’t feel bad that you both have, it’s part of being human, accept it and learn it. Don’t rebuke him/her because you have yours too and of course you are ‘stuck’ with it the rest of your lives.

5.       Be polite – don’t take him/her for granted, “Familiarity they say breeds contempt” don’t let that get into your head. Always use the magic words – please and am sorry.

6.       Be gentle with one another, it’ll go a long way to soften each other even when quarrels/misunderstandings arise which they certainly will.

7.       Give gifts – take advantage of these dates, anniversaries and holidays. They’ll go a long way to show deep feelings and leave a mark.

8.       Smile often - a smile softens the heart and it travels far into the soul.

9.       Touch – a touch is a way of showing affection , it may be a pat on the back, cheek or …

10.   Talk about dreams – share visions, goals and thoughts.

11.   Select a song that can become “our song” – that’s a good way to flow

12.   Give back rubs and massages- it will ignite the right passion

13.   Laugh together – go for comedy shows, crack jokes and share funny tales of work, traffic etc

14.   Send a card or note for no reason or at least for the reason you are both together.

15.   Do what the other person wants, what he or she asks – do favors and run errands for your partner

16.   Listen – it pays to listen even if it doesn’t make sense to you as long as it makes sense to your partner, just lend your ears and attention.

17.   Encourage – encourage the other even when he/she fails

18.   Do it his or her way – when asked to do something even if it means you going out your way to

19.   Know his or her needs – during courtship you should study your partner and know a lot about what he/she wants

20.   Fix the other, breakfast – even if it’s not in your capacity drop the ego and be nice, it’ll be a pleasant surprise.

21.   Compliment - pay compliments at least twice a day, even when there’s nothing present dig up old goodies.

22.   Call during the day – especially and at unexpected times. It’ll be a beautiful surprise.

23.   Take things one at a time, don’t over work yourself or your relationship

24.   Hold hands – as reflex, conscious , unconscious and expressions

25.   Cuddle (winks)- don’t you just love to lean and leaned on

26.   Ask for each other’s opinion

27.   Show respect, at least some if not all. Respect is reciprocal.

28.   Welcome your partner home

29.   Look your best, it goes a long way and pleases the other’s ego.

30.   Wink or use sign languages you both will understand

31.   Celebrate anniversaries like birthdays etc in a nice way

32.   Apologize, make efforts to say am sorry.

33.   Forgive , what goes around comes around

34.   Set up a romantic getaway  (outings or trips)just for two

35.   Ask, “what can I do to make you happier”?

36.   Be positive, optimism helps the soul

37.   Be vulnerable at times

38.   Respond quickly to your partners request

39.   Talk about love , celin dion’s song comes to mind right? Yea, you need to interact on that platform

40.   Reminisce about your favorite times together

41.   Treat each other’s friends and relatives with courtesy

42.   Send flowers every valentine’s day and anniversary or just gifts

43.   Admit when wrong

44.   Be sensitive to each other’s sexual desire, try to please

45.   Pray for each other in public and private

46.   Watch anything and movies together

47.   Say “I love you” frequently, those are magic words that can penetrate any heart

48.   End the day with a hug or kisses (anything affectionate)

49.   Seek outside counseling or help when necessary

50.   Don’t go to bed angry with your partner, always make up before sleeping

 

Dear reader make sure you share this with your single and married friends, alot of homes are broken today for lack of good management and lack of show of affection.

Best Regards.