Hey Ggirl, if u ar finding his complains unbearable at diz stage where u both are engaged [as u refer 2 him as ur fiancee], i'ld suggest u both take a break from d relationship, coz from what uv said,he seem kinda temperamental and if uv not bin able 2 calm him down since u started d relationship,then mayb ders a warning somewhere.....Dont mind dat i'm not telling u 2 pray about diz issue,coz sometyms its left 2 us 2 use our brains 2 make decisions......
Good luck babes...

MY DEAR ITS A SIGN,PLZ DNT THNK U KAN MANAGE IT. TRUST ME VE BIN DER ND ITS AN UGLY SITUATN KOS B4 U KNW IT HE'L STRT HITING U. USE UR HEAD OH PLZ

gul u really have to be careful at this point because wat u can condone now u can condone when you are married

That is a red flag right there. better play smart and keep your eyes open. for a man who never found faults to all of a sudden start finding faults and getting irritated at virtually everything. then there is definitely a problem somewhere. maybe there is a new woman of interest. carry out your investigations well and hop out of the boat fast if need be b4 it capsizes.

my dear, all u need now is to pray about ur relationship, ask God for understanding, so that u will understad your man and always try not to argue with ur man when he tells you sumtin.
pls always use the word sorry, becos i tink ur relationship is in ur hands, you ar the one to make it work and remember that, change is consant in life and life itslf is full of ups and downs dont expect him to be a saint cos he is human and has bad side likewise your self. so if trully u love ur man do wat u can to keep him. all the best girl.

Disagreements are normal, but wat i dnt see normal is he not calling you bcos of it. Communication is a vital key in any relationship, talk about it, but dat is after he calls u first(if he calls you). I used to be in a similar situation where d guy wnt call me or pick my calls for days just bcos he was forming angry. It was wen i made up my mind not to call him first everything fell apart, it meant i was d only one holding it together. Just wait for his call, but av it at d back of ur mind dat he wnt-so u wnt be disappointed

Kip praying abt it bt don't call him n wen he calls(if he does) den u guys shld hv a real talk.

My dear, that is a warning sign. Relationship is a 2 way thing and not one way and it is grounded on dialogue. If he doesnt tell you where you went wrong how does he expect you to make amends. Hold your peace and watch if he cares.

PLEASE PLEASE LISTEN TO ME this is a BIG warning sign if he starts this now he wont stop after the marriage. who married to someone that treats them like dirt!!!!!! You will be unhappy in the end!!!!! first PRAY and ask god to show you the way!!!!!

Ggirl, sound familiar.Laurie, she asked her brother.
Nne, he may b goin thru sm tough time n unknowingly takin it out on U, find that out first n again.........is ds d first time?
Just shine ur eye well...........it may also b a sign that he s gotten tired of U.