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i just met a guy after two years of breaking up with my ex.he is caring, lively, appriciating with attitudes dat got me attracted to him but he is just 5ft 5inch/6 inch and a cute petite stature.i am 5ft 7inch tal. i am beggining to like him due to the way he cares and respects me and relly wants us to get serious and commited.
normally i like my guy tall, built and presentable but out of all the guys that av bin asking me out, despite their tall, dark and hansome cute look, i still dont have feelings for them instead i get scared that they might just be playing me and other attitudes i dont relly like.
but this guy i just met stairred up a feeling in me which i s very rare.
1. does it mean he might be ok for me despite the height imbalance?
2. what do i do to feel confident and comfortable with his height since am a bit taller than him.
generally what advice can u give me concerning this.
tanks for uur replys.
BETTER GRABBBBB HIM NOW O....
lol, theres totally nothing wrong with you being taller than ur husband ok, go for it girl.
congrats in advance o.
a colleague of mine is doing same and their wedding is next saturday,the guy is small and short and the lady is big like 3 inches taller and they are both happy......im sure u would have thought that marriage is not abt stature or in physical appearance...it is solely where u 'll find happiness and fulfilment that u should focus on....If u are convinced regardless of the height thing,i'll just copy the first person.....GO FOR IT GIRL....congrats in advance...cheers!!!!
Am taller than my fiance and we are getting married soon. My dear, if u trully love each other, go ahead. Not by height o, but by the love that is between two of you. God will help you.
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its all about ur happiness gurl... stay whr ure happy. plenty men wt height and what ve u dat are nt commited to their relatnshp..iv seen a lot of dem rily..true life xperiences so if u knw ds guy wil make u happy and respect u cos dats wat a woman needs most.. when a man respects u enuf, other gud tins follow naturally...
about ur self confidence.. ur nt getn maried for anybody,ar u? ure doin it for ursef and ur future..i dnt see y u shd nt be proud of ur hapiness gurl..u cnt sacrifice ur joy to please 'what ppl wil thnk'..
darl, the only height u need in life is the 'height of ur fulfilment and hapiness' k..
GO GRAB UR COPY NOW!!! LOLZ
uv heard it all babes....if ur truly convinced he luvs and cares 4 u,go 4 him,physical looks should just be 20% in a relationshp.....permit me 2 say happy married lyf in advance...lolz....
- sephia added 6 months agoi would advice you to overlook the height, physical appearance does not really matter, i have seen couples where the wife is taller than the man. the guy has a great personality and you feel good abt him as you said... that should really be the primary focus. good luck
I would not worrry about the height, unless you are not comfortable with this and you don't think u ever will be. I always was attracted to short men and never liked tall men. But I am now engaged to a very tall man. One thing I did do when I dated a shorter person, was wear flats really low heels, but it really doesn't matter.Just relax.
So, I think it's love that conquers, if u love him. That's enough. The height should not be an issue, if it does not really bother u.
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since this guy is the only one u have feelings for,first u have to pray and tell GOD to guide u.the height is not a barrier to ur relationship,the most important thing is love.if there is love between two of u,and u understand each other,my dear go for it.wish u well.
- amaka added 6 months ago