Babes,experience dey say iz d best teacher...uv had a bitter experience and evendou u av 4given him,ur still findin it difficult 2 4get....b straight wiv him and let hm no ur truly o longa interested in being wiv him and stop giving him green lyt 2 continue chasin afta u..muv on wiv ur lyf and pray 4 sum1 who wuld respect u enof not 2 cheat on u...LET HIM BELONG 2 HISTORY.....Gudluck.....

I really feel for you mysister.But tell the truth you still love him.i feel if he left d girl he left you for,you would take him back hence your being bewildered at his behaviour.i think he knows he made a mistake but he still cant let go of d girl.also she is incompatible spiritually with him hence his loosing his jobs since he met her.He isnt worth it.U v to realise dat

i feel u dear,am in something close to dat.d truth is if he is really ready to be with you,he will leave the other girl.mine is stil with the other girl but he keeps saying we are still together and all that bullshit.my dear that is the way of men 4 you.he just wants to keep getting between your legs.dont give in when next he tries to get between your legs.if he wants to get between ur legs again he shld do it the right way and marry u first afterall he has been there before,he should wait.i think he has known u for 5yrs,so he knows how to work on ur emotions and get you into his bed,so if u can avoid him completely please do.but r u sure u can ever completely be happy with him?cosdiering all that has happend in the past.as for him i just feel he wants to eat his cake and have it.he isnt sure if he is ready to let go finally.dont u think he is bugging you right now cos the other girl cant be around him so often?just pray about it and tell God to take over and bring someone that wont cause you pain and shame.takia dear,d Lord is ur strength.

Nne, pls run far away from dat guy. He is only using u cos he knows u still have feelings 4 him cos he is ur first. Though it is hard, run without luking back. He just want 2 b having sex with u. Told my hus and he said, the guy is no longer urs. just using u 2 satsify his sex urge. Wish u d best dear and pray u find ur man

My dear, i would not advice you to go back to this man even if he comes back for you. for the fact that he is still with the other gal says alot already. i basically feel like he is using u to keep himself company since he doesnt see the other girl frequently anymore. the only way you will heal fully of what happened in the past is if you let go completely and involve yourself in some other thing...probably a new relationship. you obviously still have feelings for him and that is why you see yourself spending time with him despite all he did to you. between u are 26, age is not really on your side, u need to move ahead and start dating a man who will respect and appreciate you. not all men are the same and just bcos man A treated you badly, doesn't mean man B will. pray, talk to God, tell him to give you the strength to move on. Make up your mind, approach your Ex. tell him you would want less communication btw the both of you but be very diplomatic abt it, stay open to a new relationship, when you are ready, get involved with another man, that way you are not idle and do not always have to think back abt the past or even have the time to spend with an Ex.
you are not alone, pple go through disappointments like these everyday. it is your ability to handle the issue well that makes you a strong person. cheers!

Ify, i really feel like i have heard this story before cos it happened to someone i knw. In her case, he even proposed marriage in a bid to decieve her. My dear DECIET that is all this is all about. This guy knws u a lil too much and he knws hw to wind u and get u exactly where he wants. He has no intentions of leaving the other gal for u.

My advice, just move on. Dont even stay as friends with him cos it will never wrk.

Pray my dear and allow God.

are you joking me....????
like duh, who does that?
he's obviously bad for every woman not just u jor....

please run away as far as u can from him ok!
its well wit u.

Hello ify,so sori everybody hz given u a gud advise,i wil add also pls RUN FAST!!!,he is a deceiver,if he wants u y dint he leave d oda lady,pls my dear kindly let him go dough nt easy bt God wil b ur strength,a beta man who wil respect u is on ur way.tkia dear.

ify i feel you but the truth is you can do without him. please tell him its over and move on with ur life u will surely find someone better that will treat you will love and respect.

i have been in such situation before dear and my advice to you is RUN!!!! we dated over ten years ago, we broke up and he came back last year and begged after ten years and i thought he was a changed guy, thinkin he was ready to settle and get married seeing as he had a good job and all. but he had several girls at the side, i stayed in the relationship, hoping he'll change...i got tired and left him in august, in november i met another guy, God sent and now im happy.....please dear RUN for your life, such guys dont change, he"ll keep dating other women even if he marries you, he doesnt respect you, and only God knows what he tells his friends every time you leave his house after "making out", leave him, if possible insult him and warn him to stop calling you, delete his number and stop thinking of him, let go dear...let go and let GOD in.