Hello Zavili, to me, i wld prefer u to stay in abj sync u av d job u av always wished for cos he is just ur bf nt fiance yet....or better still, u cn shuttle btw abuja and ph. Most importantly, commit ur ways to God to direct ur path and decisions

my dear sister you better think twice about this issue oh. no think say because he is bf u take a decision that will suite him oh and regret later.just do what you think is best for ursef not him.

take the job, have that career fufilment even if its just for a few months then resign after the wedding if u have to, if u let the job go, u will forever feel like u had to sacifice something for him

Zavili, u say he hasn't proposed yet? My dear move on to abj and dont waste time o. Though u've met his people is not a guarantee that he may want to commit himself for life. R u sure he hasnt even taken some other girls to his family to scrutinize? Go on, take d job and if God says he is urs for life, he will make a way. Mnwhile, at this age n time, u cant afford to turn down a job u like cos of a man...remember, no man wants a woman for a liability

There are some decisions that should be left, u know the saying, when we get to the bridge, we will cross, take ur dream job, fulfil ur career hunt first, when u get married, u can den decide