distance is killing my relationship

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what do i do? my man work and based in owerri while am based in lagos we hardly know each other, and resolve issues on phone. we are planning to tie the knot by jan, 2010. am confused.

asked over 1 year ago by BABALOLA ADEBANKE ENIOLA - 3
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are you sure you would want to marry a man u barely know? its a marriage not a relationship, so pls take your time to know him before making a drastic decision.......

answered over 1 year ago by tollah - 16
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rite on it tollah...
eniola relax and let things be .
dont force it and let things or people force you.
A broken engagement is better than a broken marriage ...the stigma of divorce is not good ok!

good luck.

- Joy Joy added over 1 year ago

you can never know a man or woman enough. Prayer is the best. As God for signs that could only come from HIM. If the match wouldnt work ask HIM to break it up no matter the love. I did such prayer and I thought I would die when it didnt work but right now, I tell you I am happy it didnt!

answered over 1 year ago by acabadocakes - 9
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my dear, dats nothing! wat abt pple who have their partners in a different country. you are just states apart.....all u have to do is make out time and travel up to each other. planning things well will resolve the issue. be smart abt it, some men are very impatient and may tend to stray off

answered 10 months ago by ISpeakTheTruth - 731
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My dear, please know at least a little about this man before considering marriage with him, u can visit him at his base, any time u are free. I know there will be pretence, but at least for u to make sure u love him before entering into marriage with him. I believe if there is love u can be blind to other short comings on his part, also remember nobody is perfect.

answered 10 months ago by maryann - 22
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