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Is it okay for me 2 go into another relationship 1 yr after my late wife`s death.would it nt b dat am rushing?
Is it practically possible to be emotionally stable as to want to go into another relationship @ such short interval? If you can sincerely answer that question, then stick to ur decision...
it would.. to an extent but my bro. MARRIAGE IS D SOLUTION IN NAIJA!
EVeryone will frown @ u if u just only date d nu woman ....get serious so u dnt end up in fornication n i too will shout @ u....yeah.
if u love her {like her alot} den marry her...d bible supports u..
There is no hard and fast rule to it...if there is, it is not cast on stone...Follow your heart..
Morgan,
u r right am yet to b stable emotional wise.but my mother in law
is insisting i move on if i want r to live long.i guess i was going almost working 2wadrs my grave that made say dat cos she doesnt want 2 loose me 2.even she had been trying 2 get me hooked up 2 some1.
we had been 2geda 4 about 19yrs without a child(my late wife).
Ademola, i think you should ask yourself this important question:
- Are you ready emotionally to move on
If you are not then, you would make your new wife unhappy unconsciously.....
I can imagine your mother-in-law wanting you to move on quick( by the way, she is a rare one!! i like her) if you are slowly killing yourself.
I think, you should search your heart, you would know if you are ready emotionally. You know you need to give your all in any relationship.
If you have someone you are interested in, then its better to start a relationship rather than sin.
I know people think you should stay for like eternity to show your love for the dead spouse but this life is only for the living. cherish her in your heart.
Wish you the best.
- meeboni added about 2 years agoAre u sure u are just not looking for a shoulder to lean on in this trying period;why not sort your feelings out first before you get committed to another relationship.
- adetola adeniyi added about 2 years agoAtleast its still better than sleeping around in secrecy. Go ahead if its ok by you
it depend on d situation ur wife left behind;consider ur children too,what do they ve to say or feel or maybe their feelings does not count,then go ahead afterall its ur life.
Ademola, i think you should ask yourself this important question:
- Are you ready emotionally to move on
If you are not then, you would make your new wife unhappy unconsciously.....
I can imagine your mother-in-law wanting you to move on quick( by the way, she is a rare one!! i like her) if you are slowly killing yourself.
I think, you should search your heart, you would know if you are ready emotionally. You know you need to give you all in any relationship.
If you have someone you are interested in, then its better to start a relationship rather than sin.
I know people think you should stay for like eternity to show your love for the dead spouse but this live is only for the living. cherish her in your heart.
Wish you the best.
Adanma, there was no child. Please read Ademola's comment to Morgan.
Ademola, you may need to take some time out, away from everyone and really be calm within to assess the emotions you are going through. Your mother in law may mean well, but you will be the one living with the partner. May your path and thoughts be directed by God.
Dear Ademola,
Now your 2nd question makes more sense. I believe the way you feel, the guilt, flashes, etc have answered your own question. You are psychologically unprepared. Give yourself time..................... go join a recreation club, get involved in sports, travel, see the world, do whatever you can to take your mind off, and heal properly before going into a new relationship or else it will adversely affect the new relationship. When it is time, you will know. You will be more at peace within.
Sorry for your loss Ademola. It must not be easy to deal with,I totally agree with Nkem's comment.
- Sweetchild added about 2 years agoAde, i am sorry abt ur loss bt i tink its just too fast give urself a while b4 u go into any relationship or get married
Pls go ahead and marry a 'wife indeed' that you have found, you have tried and done so well.
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