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Men are so funny and full of theirselve, there is this man he wants us to be lovers but when i ask him to assist me in some of my need, it will bring problem, if i try to ask him what he want from me he will say alot of good and sweet things but my dear i no fit talk. i just tried him few days ago that he should assist me with some money, HE BLANKED pls what should i do in this case.
Let him kiss ur *ss if he cant help in ur financial needs..or is it thta he doesnt have?
A question pops: is it the financial help you get from a man that determines whether you say yes to him or not? I ask this because that's the only thing that seem important to you between you both. Then you started by saying MEN ARE SO FUNNY AND FULL OF THEMSELVES, by every standard, that is an insult to men, including the very one you'll eventually fall in love with and get married to, you sound very much like: hey man, drop the money and have me, no money no show.
It's bad enough if a guy wants to have you and doesn't want to be responsible, but at a stage where you have not even considered dating him and he already is getting introduced to financial needs, I suggest you yourself reserve some respect for yourself and let any man have the noble impression that you are not coming into their life to become another burden or a capital expenditure for a project that might go the uncompleted way.
This in my opinion is not about men, it's about procedure, priorities and letting the right things be more important.
Thanks but you are too personal here or is that how you treat your wife or girl anyway you are not my God to tell me how and what will happen, to me "including the very one you will eventually fall in ****ing love or marry tomorrow, what is your problem and if you do not know what to say i advice you to keep off. you all are thesame goodday,
- Blesy James added about 2 years agoCheck out other people's comments and compare to what I said, I maintain every bit of what I wrote up here as a sincere and honest response to what you have stated.
People that ask advice must be prepared to accommodate honest ones which may not necessarily be sugary.
I have a wife, but she never occurred to me for once since I have met her to be using my financial responsibility to determine our relationship and that's why she's the OWNER of ALL that I have and can ever have.
Yes if you say "Men are so funny and full of themselves...." and "you're all the same", it definitely includes the very man that you will eventually marry. Maybe you do not plan to be in love with him from your comments, but if you marry and I pray you do, it will be to a man.
- Lex Akindumila added about 2 years agoOh God! Hell No. What trhen has happened to ur own Hand-Work?
Men are like that when u need something from them not only finances,the good one are not yet born
Seems u r tying the guy's feelings for you to his ability to give you money.
Do you know how buoyant he is financially, or if he is just stingy.
You also have to think of it this way, what if he is used to girls been after only money, and he is trying to let u know he isnt down with that kind of attitude.
Have u tried buying anything 4 him b4, so that he'll at least have a feeling that u are not all about taking
he's no good. he is the typica selfish idiot....
let him go jo', you'll soon get what you want also dont chase men away with your needs o..they dont like women who want except u sttupidly want to sell ureself cheap!
Girls girls!! where are your own abilities? does he owe you financial help!?! No he don't!! Maybe if you showed him some love (and I am not taklking about sex here!) he would actually feel like assisting you. You gotta show him it is not only about money, no wonder he blanks out. try just being his girl for a few weeks without asking for cash!! Otherwise what is the difference between him being with you and being with a girls who is actually "working" for money? Reflect on this-o!
Thanks for that but understand me before you say a word, you did not mean sex then what to you mean, when you are talking with a man and all he says is come to my house and when you get there(he is not a pastor that you may
my advice 2 u,which is also a suggestion;-depend on yourself, and any man who wants your body does not love u.he is just doing it 4 his own satisfaction. and who is to say he is not already married? VALUE YOURSELF COS YOU ARE PRICELESS!!!!!
- belle added about 2 years agoI totally agree with Braide, there is no need giving him your body which cannot be compared to that money you are requesting from him. Stop asking him for money and also stop giving your body to him b/cuz your body is the temple of God. If he is serious and he wants marriage, you have to find out if he is on the stingy side, it will then be in your place to see if you can live with it. God bless you.
Why have some ladies traded their self pride for money? there is nothing like being independent and guyz will even respect u more. For those that are advicing you to move on how are we sure they are not going through worse things. Trust chicks! they'll always want to make u feel they get everytin when they dont. Chick set your piorities right.
Pls Blesy giv us women some respect. i totally agree with LEx. When u put a question here, u have to be prepared to get answers dat u might not really like, but r true. dnt angry. u asked. Anyway as controversial madam said, y dont u try just being a 'nice' lady for some weeks. dnt ask for money. just try to see him in a different light and just be free with him. He might end up helping u without u forcing his hand.
my fair lady, are you for sale? are selling something. must he give you money to show he cares?okay if your criteria is money then why dont you place an advert in the newspapers seeking the most generous and richest guy. what do you think?
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