Is infidelity a deal breaker for you?
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A lot of women cherish the thought that their husband is faithful to them only. If you find out that she has cheated, is that the end?
Yep! Definitely a deal breaker. I would have two choices - either I leave, or I just cheat as well. So either way, the deal to be faithful is off!! Simple and straightforward!
Dat does not put an end to it,as a result,dere shld b a hrt of 4orgiveness,cos it might b u 2ummorow nd u will expect d same.
Tell God the type of man you want your man to be now, so that you'll never experience this. If the worst happen, though it is unbearable, but you'll pray to God for the grace to forgive him and accept him again as your husband without having the mind of revenge, bcos therein lie your blessing and favour before God. Then you'll leave him to his conscience and to God. But dont dishonour him pls no matter what, just ask for the grace.
Either ways, it cannot be the end depending on what the foundation of the marriage is.
It's hard to take, but if you let it break the deal, wha happens next? Will you go and broker another deal and if and when that breaks you find another to broker.
Foundation like I said earlier is fundamental. God must always be brought into the midst of brokering the first and of course the only marriage deal and that deal in itself will not survive on its own by making God the foundation, it has to constantly and daily be supported and maintained with prayers. People say what is good needs prayers just as much as what is bad.
we to me it won't be over because nobody is above mistake, it could happen to anybody. u need not 2 fight him,all u need do is put him in your daily prayers cos some men can be funny. u don't know his next plain, just try and let him know that you love him.cos some men you don't force them 2 do what they don't want 2 do. so just take your time to do the things he likes and make sure u serve him well.at the end he may end up tell u that he is so sorry that he cheated on you. we should use wisdom this time,cos real husband are too difficult to find.
Shalom - I can almost bet you're not married and haven't built a home and stuck with a husband through difficult times because if you have, then you wouldn't say things like "u need not 2 fight him,all u need do is put him in your daily prayers cos some men can be funny. u don't know his next plain, just try and let him know that you love him.cos some men you don't force them 2 do what they don't want 2 do. so just take your time to do the things he likes and make sure u serve him well.at the end he may end up tell u that he is so sorry that he cheated on you. we should use wisdom this time,cos real husband are too difficult to find. ".
Are you kidding me? u need not fight him? just pray, and serve him well and if u're lucky he would apologise for his actions? Ok, be sure to practice what you preach when it happens to you. :)
- lummy added about 2 years agoWell it can never be the end,everything depends on how you started,if he was d cheating type while courting,you shldn't have gone in,cuz he'll never change,but since it has already taken place,no man is worth dying for,just remain calm n get yourself busy 2 get your mind off it,also take it to God in prayer,cuz there is nothng he cannot do.
Well! well! well! There is on perfect guy u just love the imperfect perfectly.